well i have asked and he changes the topic. the others are so nice idek what to do without hurting them, and the ex was toxic asf - told me to kms and cheated on me 4 times so yk

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just block the ex then LOL, i feel like just telling the others ahead of time that your not interested in any relationships would be a good start,

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i cant thoughhh- i still feel attached to him, idk why. and then the other guys, it's just so hard. i hate hurting people's feelings

15170 - 

how do I tell my boyfriend that I don't feel comfortable in a poly relationship. -O

15181 - 

same, but you might hurt them in the process if you were to lead them on. if your not sure they want a relationship then just go with the flow though

15145 - 

really though if your ex was that abusive, you should not respond to them. thats just manipulation, especially if you still feel attachment to them after doing something that horrible

15145 - 

gahh, i just hate feelings. i feel like he likes me but he wont say it and then there are two nice guys who want me but i just love the other guy.

15170 - 

i know but like we dated for like 2 years and i still have a feeling for him

15170 - 

not sure why

15170 - 

a lot of manipulation comes down to making the person being manipulated feel like they weren't "enough" and its really damaging. my best advice would be to take a step back and look at what they did

15145 - 

i know what they did though and i know it was wrong and i shouldnt want him yet i do. i've tried ignoring him but secretly i want to text him so badly

15170 - 

and like he randomly blocks me and unblocks me- it's so weird

15170 - 

if they not only cheated on you but told you to literally end your own life, thats just emotionally abusive.

15145 - 

sorta like an addiction, where wanting to stop makes you want it more, but any more will only cause more damage

15145 - 

he also told me to film it and send it to him so he could have a nice laugh.

15170 - 

i think i'll just keep trying to ignore him

15170 - 

theres a lot of gross people out there, even if you cant see it head on, for now i feel like just ignoring it is a good start

15145 - 

alright, thank you

15170 - 

my own sibling was super manipulative and it took me years to realise what they were doing

15145 - 

that stuff JUST sucks LOL

15145 - 

your own sibling? i'm sorry

15170 - 

i just tore off a huge chunk of skin it hurts so bad fml

15182 - 

uhhhh you okayy???

15145 - 

why'd you tear it off?

15170 - 

im nothing

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feel like nothing, have nothing

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this part was peeling off so i thought i could just like take it off

15182 - 

im back to square one

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but nope a huge part came with it

15182 - 

ouch

15170 - 

i was doing so good, i was doing great, i was getting to be so much better

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HI CHAT

15178 - 

i'm fucking BACK

15178 - 

you should get some bandaids or something to prevent infection then? that sounds painful

15145 - 

i was happier than ever, and now im nothing

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its all my fault

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im just too weak

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im going to i have such bad luck lol

15182 - 

i was so happy

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i had it all

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