i hate to say this it might be good to take a break - Isa

yeahh i feel ya. wow i get that, i'm same way and its really hard to find someone who returns the love - Isa

and if you guys need to take a break for maturity before you think about taking that next permanent step - Isa

if this is what you want i think it would be good to sit down and just kinda chekc in with him and that so you can relaly see where he's at - Isa

mhm - Isa

*this - Isa

i feel like you're ready and he's really not ready for thi - Isa

i think because you both are so young its especially important that you both need to be committed and i'm worried from not seeing it as much from him as from you - Isa

no i don't think it is, some of us are just old souls haha. and like i said we mature faster than boys. i'm surprised to see it so young but i'm happy for you - Isa

i think if you guys wait it out, if he's committed too, it may settle down but i understand that - Isa

wow sav, that's a lot of love, yeah they aren't committed unfortunately - Isa

or will it be too much for you? - Isa

is this something you can deal with long term? - Isa

@sav and you have to think, marrige is for life, are you willing to love him and all of this for life? - Isa

@sav, yeah it can be draining for sure, but honestly i'm really amazed you guys are so committed - Isa

@sav, that's a completely valid wish, it hurts to grow apart, i wish i knew you and the situation better - Isa

@sav, yeah its hard feeling when its one sided ( i get ya, i'm a girl) but its good he's changing - Isa

@sav but its important to keep in mind that you guys sitll have alot of growing and changing to do and you may be completely different ppl in the future - Isa

@sav, wow that's so cool. gosh may that kind of love find me someday. but if you rlly love him and want to marry then i'd say yes its worth it - Isa

@sav, he's right, i thnk it boils down to what you want, are you looking to one day marry him or long term? - Isa

haha so true power couple - Isa

@sav, that makes sense, it's gonna take longer for him to mature - Isa

@ you guys are still growing and honestly that may happen. are you a girl, bc girls do mature faster than guys - Isa

oohh hi light, ur back - Isa

yall are so so young - Isa

no its okay, @sav, i'm not judging - Isa

@hmm thats interesting - Isa

@sav, if ur okay w me asking, how old are you guys? - Isa

@sav, man i wish couples therapy was a thing i really think that would help. but i know its really hard when you feel misunderstood - Isa

hii - Isa

@sav, i'm so sorry - Isa

@sav i mean emotions are hard, does he understand that - Isa

@sav, yeah that's understandable, if its really something you wanna keep is couples therapy an option if it gets rllly bad? - Isa

i know, isnt -L so good at guessing its actually nuts but so cool - Isa

@sav, is he good to you? - Isa

@white, i'm so sorry, you're obv in a lot of pain - Isa

well that;s not helpful - Isa

@white, i get that - Isa

hey i'm here for ya tho - Isa

@white, i'm sorry - Isa