I see

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Is there a reason your mother wont divorce?

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Hes got anxiety, diagnosed,and maybe i just dont get it but thats NOT an excuse for him to abuse me or throw around really hurtful words

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of course

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mental disorders dont excuse his actions

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There isnt a reason, she just loves him ig

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He grabbed at my throat once

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He always says making me was his biggest failure

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thats awful

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Its not even the first time he hit me like wtf is with him

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im just sad and worried

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One sec

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thats abuse

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That is

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you could call helplines?

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though i understand it might be hard to do that

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My bf of four years is becoming distant to me

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ah

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have you tried talking about it to him?

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he makes more effort on his friends now and barely has time for me

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I did but it feels like its going from one ear to another

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I see

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you could ask him to hang out?

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perhaps its best to leave or take a temporary break

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though it wont be easy

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would he say no

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ask him to spend more time

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tell him how its affecting you

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prolly not the best advice but you should try distancing yourself too and see if he notices and talks to u

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mhm

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I wanna break up with him but he's the only one I have and he doesn't give up in relationship

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he just exist

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you should explain and tell him how it affects you

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if he focuses more on his friends, hes not ready to be in a relationship

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do you think him being a gemini makes him get bored easily??

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Yo

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yo

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because he does this every year

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if he still doesnt care or change even after you tell him, it might be better to leave

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im a gemini and i dont get bored easily

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