I’m not trying to be needy or unreasonable; I’m just telling you how it feels from my end. I’ve been really understanding and lenient about your social life, your time out, and your friends.

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I never try to control where you go or who you’re with, but it’s hard to ignore the fact that when I do get a fraction of your attention or your time you’re distracted

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and I feel like I’m the only one who’s really there and you’re half-engaged, and honestly, it’s like I’m competing with your phone or your friends for your focus

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I don’t deserve four hours of inconsistent hangout time and a lack of attentiveness during our conversations.

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I noticed you text your friends and interact with them while we’re spending time together. What’s worse is watching you give your friends all the undivided attention.

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It’s clear you’re fully present with them, while with me, you seem distracted.

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I shouldn’t feel like I’m asking for too much when I just want to feel valued in your life.

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not saying you’re not making an effort; I’m just saying the effort you put into your friends isn’t the same as what you give me and the 100% you said you’ll do.

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your night with your friends.

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Seeing how much effort you put into them, I can’t help but feel like I’m the one who cares too much or asks for too little. I ask for attentive conversation, consistent updates, and small compliments,

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Your overall attitude and the way you treat me compared to your friends are making me completely check out of the relationship.

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I understand you’re busy, but if you can make the effort to hang out with your friends four times a week, text them,

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and know about their lives, then you’re just giving me lame excuses for not being able to update me properly when you get home or send a message that takes less than 30 seconds.

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I’ve done my best to respect your busy schedule and your desire to prefer other people. I’ve always been here for you no matter what and I don’t want to be the person who holds you back from things

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that make you happy.

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There's just no deductive or rational reasoning in my brain

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I miss the way we used to connect, and I wish things felt as special as they did before. I really do care about you and only want the best.

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I'm just chasing mental candies made of dreams in this life

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But if you feel like you no longer think of me like that and it’s harder to give me that undivided attention once a week or just make small efforts I ask, I’d understand. Just let me know so I can adj

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Gooey textures of bubbly dreams

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my expectations.

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goodbye !

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thats a really good explanation

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its worth sending

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sounds perfectly rational and reasonable

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its good

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yeah

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but how would u think hed respond

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I don't actually wanna break up its just me setting boundaries

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thats the thing

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chat wsg

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Pretty neon pastel coloured dreams spilling from the centre of a chewy bubblegum candy

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mmm if you dont wanna break up then just say whats annoying u

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and ask for more attention

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I lose myself in a fantasy world devoid of logic

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he would say he would make an effort and try but its half ass

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its better to take a break then

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yea

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do men really get sick of their gfs after 4 years

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maybe missing your company would make him realise

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