I avoid group discussions in favour of 1-on-1 interactions.

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Okay cool, well that's pretty much it

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Intimacy, closeness.

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But I think I just copy off others. I'm not sure if I have any real identity.

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It's depressing.

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I don't want to be a co-dependent.

33151 - 

i see coral. so youe were saying into singers? (correct me if i messed up)

44526 - 

Just need to find someone with a much better singing voice I guess? But that's so shallow

44019 - 

you can't just get over a crush, are there things that just makes you think "ick" or "ew"

27948 - 

Yes, I'm attracted to someone's voice (and personality) more than anything else tbh

44019 - 

about him

27948 - 

No one cares, as usual.

33151 - 

Maybe that he's five years younger than me

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You'd rather talk about crushes, I'd rather talk about CPTSD and intense, depressing things.

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coral, im a sucker for good voices too loll

44526 - 

You can talk about whatever red

44019 - 

We in this together then cyan

44019 - 

Whenever I'm called stupid, I kinda just freeze. I enter a fight or flight state.

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havent met any of them yet coaralll

44526 - 

red, say anything at this point we will and listen to it even though we are talking to somebody else or just doing nothing

27948 - 

You will cyan

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On the one hand, I wanna tear the other person apart. On the other, I try to remain calm in order to look less dumb.

33151 - 

Thanks.

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Honestly I've crushed hard on people based on their voices before and it's never ended well

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I'm kinda just frozen in life now, going with the flow with no consistent ambition.

33151 - 

I know it's because of my past.

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im gonna go to therapy for the first time in some days loll

44526 - 

I have some deep traumas that will probably never go away.

33151 - 

My whole personality was formed off wanting to not look stupid. Needing to not look stupid.

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One dude was so my type, even looks which I usually don't care about it, but he was also seven years older and was ruining his voice by smoking!!!

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Crazy thing was that he was actually a professional singer, and a successful one at that

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I try to prove how smart I am constantly, but always feel like an imposter.

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red, im sorry for what youre going through

44526 - 

Teachers were dicks to me, my dad was and still is a dick.

33151 - 

I just want to find an age-appropriate person with a beautiful singing voice, is that too much to ask? </3

44019 - 

being called stupid for everything you do hurts

44526 - 

It paralyzes me.

33151 - 

I am really picky however...you either have to have great singing technique or a beautiful vocal tone

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Stunts my growth. I'm unconfident in the way I feel, in the way I act.

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Ideally both

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