and they went on a 45 minute rant about how thats insensitive because im stereotyping women

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isnt that chronically online to do

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nah, i think theyre just a radical feminist

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lmfao

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there's bigger things that are undoing the work of feminism manifestations

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for sure

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i take care of a lady with special needs and i'm losing it man. she's upstairs rn screaming and making the house shake from throwing things at the walls

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but no it's the one tiny joke that does it

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I'm so tired of getting screamed at and hit by her for literally no reason ;-; I feel bad saying I hate it bc she's special needs and all

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But it def takes a special kind of person and that just isn't me anymore

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coral, do you know what triggered it?

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sounds crazy but im autistic and i have spent hours preparing how to defuse a situation like this

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rofl

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Nah, the primary issue is there doesn't need to be a trigger. Last time she had a fit I asked her why and she said it's bc a chair in the kitchen is red :/

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okay, well thats a start

43591 - 

that is a trigger, albeit a fairly unusual one

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I think maybe she gets bored, and these fits are like entertainment for her. She does it a lot when nothing is going on

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overstimulated visually maybe?

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^^^

43591 - 

Maybe?

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She does have a lot of processing disorders

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try getting her to sit in a dark relaxed atmosphere

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Like visual/auditory

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in a basement, perhaps

43591 - 

did she say anything this time? or was this time the chair thing

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I went up there and she hit me in the face with a snowman toy she has :( that's why I took a min to just come here and vent

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She didn't say anythingW

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aw

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ouch smh

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we were sitting in the livingroom and she just started screaming

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for contextual reasons, how old is she?

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Yeah, she can be super kind and sweet too so I try to look past all of this

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She's 28, but her brain stopped developing when she was 2

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ah, okay

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So mentally 2ish

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around that age is when they do, like you said, throw fits for entertainment

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I think I'm gonna go up and offer her a drink and see how that goes. I need to redirect her but I'm out of ideas

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Yeahhh

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I hate my body :)

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Tysm for listening and helping too

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