hey guys

35964 - 

would you let a 5 year old go in to a public bathroom at a baseball stadium alone for provacy?

23783 - 

a parent shouldnt go through the 5 yr olds diary unless the kid is acting off and its a last resort beyond many other options

12502 - 

privacy

23783 - 

See coral? Kids need their privacy - Alex Mercer

35969 - 

sorry i keep disconnecting somehow

35964 - 

green thats not the same thing

12502 - 

I feel like when we talked about the insensitivity of how native people were treated in the book, and the parrellels between history, it's not interesting novel, or critical to empahsis simliarities

25097 - 

im not saying to leave ur kids unattended thats stupid

12502 - 

yeah, it is

23783 - 

to US history.

25097 - 

im saying there are SOME things that should be private in a kids life.

12502 - 

privacy when it comes to immature ppl is a safety thing

23783 - 

but safety is also equally as important

12502 - 

green if you had a 5 year old kid would you go through their diary every night

12502 - 

its not black and white lol

12502 - 

thats all im saying

12502 - 

No coral just once a week lol

23783 - 

Children these days need to evolve - Alex Mercer

35969 - 

you dont think thats weird???

12502 - 

I'm saying I'd have my eye on a 5 yr old 100% of the time

23783 - 

red evolve isnt the right word that happens over many generations

12502 - 

The 5 yr old is hypothetical

23783 - 

a kid has a right to know they actually deserve privacy as they grow

12502 - 

you need to balance things out

12502 - 

It's virtual impossible to effectively view everything your child is doing, and also give them properly open access to effectly

25097 - 

as kids mature, you let them have more "freedom" depending on their maturity level

23783 - 

Alex they need more power - vergil

35974 - 

its not about freedom

12502 - 

its about making the kid know that they are also human and deserve some respect from their parents

12502 - 

That too vergil - Alex Mercer

35969 - 

freedom meaning privacy

23783 - 

Most kids develop a need for privacy alongside their need for autonomy.

25097 - 

no, im not saying to not monitor a kids online activity

12502 - 

Privacy is a part of autonomy

25097 - 

I totally respected my kids but also kept a close eye on them

23783 - 

im just saying they do actually need some privacy

12502 - 

lord

23783 - 

and that privacy can grow as they grow

12502 - 

Not teaching your kids autonomy makes them ineffective adults.

25097 -