i'm sorry if i'm doing short messages chat i'm just tryna keep track

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expects*

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do you think maybe he feels like the family isn't how it used to be

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yeah thats exactly what he lashed out at me today about

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that's a real tough feeling by him it's understandable but he should try to understand how your father treated you

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he doesnt understand that we were never this perfect family he thinks we were before i gave up

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don’t let anyone tell you that you need to forgive him, that’s ultimately your decision and your decision alone to make

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My boyfriend is mad at me for something i didnt do and us now being salty and dry to me every time a wanna talk to him. I think hes gonna break up with me

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he’s been trying to guilt trip me into forgiving him

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purple do you have any way to prove to him you didn't do it

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saying how ive been putting so much stress on him and my mom

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don't let him do that red it's your decision 100%

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but the thing is he shouldnt be involved

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my dad talks shit about me to him all the time apparently

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that's true

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its just annoying because i know my brother will understand one day but he’s young and in the same position i used to be in

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yeah it must be hard because there's no way to explain it now in a way that'll resonate you've kinda just gotta wait

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acting like dad is just misunderstood and terrified of opposing him

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til he matures

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he’s only 16 right now

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that's really tough it takes a lot out of you

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ah

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he was a toddler when my parents split

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at the end of the day, the family being torn apart is actually your dad’s fault, not yours

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that's true green

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he doesnt remember how bad it realt was

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yeah i agree its totally my dads fault

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The whole issue is he thinks i cheated and i showed him my outgoing calls that show during that time i was on the phone with my sister who lives out of state and he still doesnt belive me

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don't let him make you believe it was your fault

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the family wants to blame me for being mentally ill in my teens but i wasnt the one screaming at an 8 year old any chance i got

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purple there's gotta be trust in a relationship, while i believe you didn't cheat if he still doesn't trust you it might not be the best person to be with

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just got told she would rather hang herself than be with me after giving me signs since april, then getting told im a pussy by her and my friends for not asking her out even tho i didnt even want to r

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i was severely depressed during middle and high school and i feel like theyre scapegoating me because of that

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you didn’t deserve that

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you don't deserve that red they shouldn't be blaming you for something uncontrollable like that

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i was not fun to be around but they were awful at handling mental health issues

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what they should've done is gotten you help red not judged you

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i'm sorry about that

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if they made a safe environment for me to talk about how i felt it wouldnt have got as bad as it did

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i'm sorry coral i missed your message you could say it again if you need

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