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This dependency can lead to difficulties in setting boundaries and maintaining healthy relationships, but with appropriate support and treatment, 37316 - |
individuals with BPD can learn to manage these tendencies and develop more balanced relationships. 37316 - |
Hi everyone, may i vent? 97720 - |
ofc yellow! 97718 - |
Okay ty lol 97720 - |
So like, my mom, shes been being so mean to me today. It feels like nothing i do is right 97720 - |
Understanding bpd and emotional dependency : 37316 - |
Mmmaa 97719 - |
Intense Attachments: People with BPD tend to form intense, quickly-developing relationships with others, often idealizing them and becoming heavily reliant on them for emotional support. 37316 - |
"Favorite Person" (FP): A common manifestation of this dependency is the concept of a "favorite person" (FP), who becomes the center of their world and the primary source of their emotional well-being 37316 - |
I was trying to bond with her earlier and she just told me to shut up and im part of the group of people thst dont care about hee 97720 - |
Her* 97720 - |
Cyan are you looping 97718 - |
I'm being maliciously accused of very bad things. Court will prove my innocence, but I feel the extent of the accusations has grown so wild my life is ruined 97717 - |
To elaborate more on this point, a person with emotional dependency will base their entire mood, personality on the availability of this person 37316 - |
Absence of their favourite person may cause intense depression or sadness 37316 - |
But she drives me insane 97720 - |
Aww I'm sorry yellow, parents should never say things like that to their children 97718 - |
Fear of Abandonment: The fear of abandonment is a core feature of BPD, and this fear is often heightened in relationships, leading individuals to cling to their FP or engage in behaviors to prevent th 37316 - |
I used to be (still am?) very emotionally dependent on my ex. No regrets though 97717 - |
em from leaving 37316 - |
I dont understand why no one believes the abuse that happens in this household 97720 - |
Mood Fluctuations: Moods can be highly reactive to the FP's behavior, with intense positive emotions when the FP is available and negative emotions when they are perceived as unavailable or rejecting. 37316 - |
And yeah, it's likely I have bpd 97717 - |
Difficulty with Boundaries: BPD can make it challenging to establish and maintain healthy emotional boundaries, leading to enmeshment and difficulty differentiating one's own emotions from those of th 37316 - |
I just want to run away, or maybe ill just die. Then people will take me seriously 97720 - |
e FP ( favourite person ) 37316 - |
Now let's talk about why this happens! 37316 - |
Why are you yapping about bpd symptoms 97717 - |
Childhood Trauma: Research suggests that childhood experiences, such as emotional neglect or trauma, can contribute to the development of BPD and its associated emotional dependency. 37316 - |
BECAUSE I AM SAD AND I WANT TO SPILL INFORMATION LIKE TIDAL WAVES 37316 - |
rawr 37316 - |
:3 37316 - |
Maybe people see your parents as good people so they become blind to their problems, yellow? 97718 - |
Don't 97717 - |
Learned Behavior: Individuals with BPD may have learned to rely on others for emotional support and validation due to a lack of secure attachment in early childhood. 37316 - |
Yeah, pretty much what the other orange said 97717 - |
I hope u don't do anything to harm yourself over it, are they hurting u physically or is it verbal? 97718 - |
I'm blocking cyan at the next copypaste 97717 - |
Oh noes 37316 - |