i hope tings get better for you

67739 - 

if i said give me 20 dollars or ill kill myself does that mean your on the hook?

67740 - 

Lots of people feel responsible for their partners or close friends actions. Doesn't make it right, but yes, it happens. Just because you are able to disconnect from that, does not mean that everybody

67739 - 

Why should others be upset with you when you're upset with them? If they did something that upsets you, they should feel terrible for doing so. Not being upset with you!!

67741 - 

Strangers are a different story

67739 - 

still a person are they not?

67740 - 

I am not ready for my event on the 31st aauaugh, I have to have 30 paintings and 30 questions I have to memorize

39349 - 

close people and loved ones are hard to ignore those

67739 - 

did anyone else have a partner that low key saw you as a parent and a god but not an equal or a human being

67742 - 

erm what the sigma

67741 - 

again, just because you're able to disconnect from the experience (if you have ever even dealt with it) doesn't mean its the same for everyone

67739 - 

partner situations ig

39349 - 

i have not experienced that blye

67739 - 

whats the difference between them?

67740 - 

no like a relationship but the other partner threatens like hey i'll kms

39349 - 

pretty much i think?

67742 - 

i could threaten you?

67740 - 

??

39349 - 

What's not the difference? These are people you have built a genuine connection with, and trust. It's easier to manipulate people close to you

67739 - 

no i dont think so but eh idk

39349 - 

its still a person, what is the moral difference?

67740 - 

I don't know you, I am not close to you by any means. You have no influence. But if my boyfriend did it, it would be a more difficult, complex situation

67739 - 

because you know the person it makes the choice more ethical?

67740 - 

Moral difference, no, sure. But mentally and emotionally there is a huge difference

67739 - 

why is this happening to me

67743 - 

humans aren't ethical creatures. We are emotional beings in the long run

67739 - 

with exceptions

67739 - 

this seems like the trolley situation in a way

39349 - 

thats just human selfishness not a real reason

67740 - 

i think i was friends with a predator and i dont know what to do

67741 - 

But we are human

67739 - 

doesnt mean its right

67740 - 

wdym red?

67739 - 

was or still is? if you still are try to disconnect

39349 - 

why cant i just swallow my pride and ask for help

67743 - 

but doesn't make it wrong either

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