I've had maybe 2 or so gay relationships

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they are like the worst domestic abuse rates

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I used to identify as lesbian actually, but now I stick with bi, cause i'm dating a man

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I dated a guy once but it was peer pressure and so I was stuck for awhile

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Oh jeez, im sorry

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your dumb

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It was a close friend of mine and I hadn't meant to, he was struggling with mental health and I was scared

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mine was weird, cause i still identified as lesbian when this guy and i started hooking up (lots of details i won't include) and now im bi and we're dating

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nice

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dont call them dumb

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well i did now what

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theres a feature to block btw if anyone needs it

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it's a valid scenario that happens to a lot of people. I know people who were stuck/ forced into relationships caus e the person threatened suicide and shit

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thats not valid

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Will do :)

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how is it not?

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I'd be horrible at giving advice to people whose partners threaten to commit suicide because I'd still leave

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do they not have agency of their own lives?

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yeah they had gone to the mental hospital and I was nervous because they said I made them happier yet I was really uncomfortable in the situation

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It's a scary situation that lots of people are not equipped to deal with emotionally

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I did enjoy them as a friend but I'm not quite open for a relationship

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life is scary it doesnt exuse any decsions

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you choose

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especially because it happens when people are younger and they don't know how to handle it. Life doesn't come with a step by step guide, and every scenario is different

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ever since my first romantic relationship I'm never dating anybody again tbh

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you live with your choices

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I feel like a terrible daught

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tbh I've always felt rushed with love with a slight history of sexual trauma so its just aaaugh so i've stopped for now

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your responsible for what you do and nobody else

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heey hope you get better yellow

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thanks

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nothing wrong taking a break from relationships and stuff, they're not easy

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just because some idiot says they are gonna kill themselves that means what other than get the fuck away?

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i hope tings get better for you

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if i said give me 20 dollars or ill kill myself does that mean your on the hook?

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Lots of people feel responsible for their partners or close friends actions. Doesn't make it right, but yes, it happens. Just because you are able to disconnect from that, does not mean that everybody

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Why should others be upset with you when you're upset with them? If they did something that upsets you, they should feel terrible for doing so. Not being upset with you!!

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Strangers are a different story

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