again, just because you're able to disconnect from the experience (if you have ever even dealt with it) doesn't mean its the same for everyone

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partner situations ig

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i have not experienced that blye

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whats the difference between them?

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no like a relationship but the other partner threatens like hey i'll kms

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pretty much i think?

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i could threaten you?

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??

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What's not the difference? These are people you have built a genuine connection with, and trust. It's easier to manipulate people close to you

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no i dont think so but eh idk

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its still a person, what is the moral difference?

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I don't know you, I am not close to you by any means. You have no influence. But if my boyfriend did it, it would be a more difficult, complex situation

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because you know the person it makes the choice more ethical?

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Moral difference, no, sure. But mentally and emotionally there is a huge difference

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why is this happening to me

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humans aren't ethical creatures. We are emotional beings in the long run

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with exceptions

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this seems like the trolley situation in a way

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thats just human selfishness not a real reason

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i think i was friends with a predator and i dont know what to do

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But we are human

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doesnt mean its right

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wdym red?

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was or still is? if you still are try to disconnect

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why cant i just swallow my pride and ask for help

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but doesn't make it wrong either

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you can't do the right thing all the time or you wouldn't be on ventscape

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it does, morally

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faie

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fair

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please

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but using suicide as a guilt trip is wrong morally regardless

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am i wrong

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staying is not a question of morals tho

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i have sympathy for those in relationships like that, but it is your life, your choice, there is context but that is what it is ultimately

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its not an excuse

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can i quit om

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its a reson

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