If you dont like the situation, let her know, work things out.

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if I do that tho, she'd say its her fault and that I must hate her or something

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But this is hypothetical isnt it?

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this is all "if"

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well thats what she does with other things

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You dont like living like this

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You have to do yourself a favor,

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Or you will keep living walking on eggshells around her

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Yeah, you're right

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Actions is better made now than later, because it will be harder to leave for you and your safety

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but like, the thing is she has seperation anxiety, so when I'm gone we still talk so she doesn't like hurt herself

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and then it will be a lot more scarier for you

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I understand that, I really do. I used to have a friend who was so dependent on me,

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They would hurt themselves if I dont always pick them

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over my life

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But you gotta also know that. You are not their guardian, their parent or their caretaker

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It's not your responsibility, even though it hurts

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In a different angle, you might even be enabling their actions by staying with them against YOUR will

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And I say this with love. Because I dont want to blame you

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tbh I think it'd either have to be that things stay the same, or I leave completely, bc I think if I said I need more space she'd jump to conclusions and it'd be a mess

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yeah you gotta leave bro

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alright i gotta go

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oki

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thanks

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you guys live life eith no regrets bye bye

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bai

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Now she just dissapeared and isn't replying to my messages

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🔞🥵🍑👉👌

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🥵🥵🥵

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Hello

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hai

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I think I should leave my gf but I dont wanna

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Why?

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bc I need more space

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Do you need to break up to get space

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?

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well i think if i told her, she'd jump to conclusions and it'd be a mess

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U could try

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Since u are gonna break up anyway

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But like the problem is that she has really bad seperation anxiety and dependancy on me, so it feels like I either have to be with her at all times, or I have to leave

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