trust me, everyone was a little freaky when they were 15, ur constantly doing it bc its the only way you find intimacy and affection

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im not saying you should jerk off all the time everyday but youre not a fucked up person for that

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and again, I woke up in the middle of the night doing it in my sleep or something

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also im assuming ur a guy, teenage boys get hardons in their sleep all the time its a biological thing

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even when youre older youll get hardons during sleep

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thats not a bad thing at all

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even as you get older it happens

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its just that our brains nowadays- genz and gen alpha

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i wasn't hard then, I was literally doing that stuff when i woke up

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theyre hardwired into craving increasing amounts of dopamine- the brain chemical that makes you happy

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or at least in simplified terms

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you do it all the time because you're addicted to constantly being stimulated, it can be scrolling jerking smoking whatever

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its all the same,

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but how do I stop it?

91831 - 

if you want to be better, you need to divert your attention away from jerking off

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how?

91831 - 

i can't find a way to stop

91831 - 

My mom has made it known that its safe for me to come out to her. I havent yet, but, I feel like I can actually breathe now

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honestly all you gotta do is find something else to do with your time

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it kinda makes me wanna cry. Bc I honestly thought she'd never accept me if I told her.

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thats literally it, find something fulfilling, a hobby that keeps you interested and engaged and rewards you

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i can't do much at all in my life tbh, I'm homeschooled, my parents won't let me out of the house, I can't even watch what I want on tv

91831 - 

learn a new language, or how to play an instrument, build a skill you can slowly develop overtime

72316 - 

you dont have to leave the house at all

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i can't ever focus though

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But we had a LONG talk abt the lgbtq, and she said she was completely okay with it. And its been such a huge weight off my shoulders

58659 - 

you might have to start a conversation with your parents about leaving the house

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my dad wouldn't accept me though. I could tell him, but he'd block it out like something he doesn't want to hear

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maybe theres a gym nearby, learn how to box, start lifting weights, go to the pool

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they don't think it's safe

91831 - 

learn how to skateboard, literally do anything

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even if you're parent chaperoned at all times

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i live a whole 10 minute drive out of town

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they won't take me anywhere

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then sit in your front yard

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and write

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about anything

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literally anything

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just take a paper and a pencil and sit outside in the sun, it doesnt matter how bored you get

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I have a friend who I'm quite close to. But I don't really enjoy her company. I only hang around her because I want what she can give me. Whether it's laughing at my jokes, or giving me attention.

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