okay maybe my sense of threats and controllingness is wack

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i am losing my mind on the toilet right now like I'm so backed up it's crazy.

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you have to now because unless your ok with it continuing

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its not controlling

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its not controlling to leave a relationship if its not working

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I feel like everything i do seems controlling or just abusive cause i’ve been called that wow im maluble

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holy hell

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if shes not willing to change for you than let her go

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oh god wake up 💔 but yeah

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are you holding her hostage in your relationship?!!!

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NO???

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NO SHE CHOSE TO BE WITH YOU OF HER OWN FREE WILL

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She’s probably sleeping peacefully rn 💔 i wanna sleep 💔💔 not really

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THAN IF YOU TELL HER HEY IF YOU AREN'T WILLING TO COMMUNICATE WITH ME AND DON'T RESPECT MY FEELINGS WE NEED TO STOP DATING

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its not controlling

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She does seem regretful

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well talk with her

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tell her lets communicate

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we gotta talk this through this is important to me please

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and speak calmly don't get angry

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be patient with her

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true love is patiences

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She probably doesn’t see what’s the issue with it though

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ja cyan. communication is the only way any sort of relationship holds

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well you have to communicate your side

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look tell her everything you told us

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Okay nah i’m reaching glass is half empty now okay yeah i’ll do that in the morning

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im nahing myself

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if you just tell her oh I don't like when you talk to these people and are unclear it will sound controlling to some

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but it you say specifically all the things like oh you make me uncomfortable when you tell them these things and lead them on

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and get me to argue with these random people

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Oh i fear i argue myself 💔

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Because they’re terrible people but like im in this

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and when you get me to communicate with these random people its not pleasant

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communicate man

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IM JUST SCARED I DON’T KNOW WHY

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and come in from a humble perspective if she says oh you do this worn and this don't argue

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oh yeah because this has happened with other people before

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your scared of being alone right?

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it’s like my life is on repeat

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