then tell her that it makes you uncomfortable not that shes messaging other people, but that she doesnt clarify your relationship status when it comes up/seems relevant

72697 - 

but then doesn’t end the convo when they’re flirting

66820 - 

EXACTLY

70819 - 

WHAT VIOLET SAID

70819 - 

Oh no but it’s the fact theyre IMMEDIATLEY flirting

66820 - 

oh lol theyre flirting? .....................hmm

72697 - 

Chicin sa wish

72528 - 

well there we go

70819 - 

she ain't the one buddy

70819 - 

your gf is flirting with other people in dm bro...

72697 - 

Like just let me fall into that pit 🤦🤦🤦

66820 - 

shes off flirting with other people in dm and not clarifying her relationship status leading her on

70819 - 

hey theres other fish in the sea glub glub lgub(sound of fish)

72697 - 

those are red flags

70819 - 

She’s not flirting herself i’d say it’smmore them first though

66820 - 

but she enjoys it

70819 - 

but wht would she "lead them on" when they start flirting if shes in a relationship

72697 - 

clearly she lets them go on right?

70819 - 

she ignores it but doesn’t acknowledge it IM TIRED ITS BEEN 3 DAYS OF ARGUING WITH THIS GUY 💔💔

66820 - 

Yeah

66820 - 

ye bro personally if i was in a relationship and someone flirted with me. id say thanks but im taken

72697 - 

Why do i gotta be the one to join the gc and just argue with them 💔🤦🤦🤦🤦 like

66820 - 

exactly

70819 - 

good morning or good night or afternoon to yall, peace and love to you kids and adults in this chat

72529 - 

don't

70819 - 

ur jumping in the gc to argue broooo

72697 - 

It’s weird this has happened 4 times throughout my life

66820 - 

sounds like shes entertaining her self

70819 - 

thx yellow peace to you too

72697 - 

you gotta respect yourself more

70819 - 

🦞lobder🦞

72528 - 

lobder im your biggest fan

72697 - 

I jump in the vc cause they’re werid 💔💔

66820 - 

stand your ground and communicate your feelings

70819 - 

I think i’ve been gaslit is that not controlling

66820 - 

its not good

70819 - 

sounds like your girlfriend has a lot of red flags

70819 - 

how is sharing your feelings about something controlling. if you mean her not wanting to message other people then generally yes

72697 - 

but in your specific situation its obviously not "dont dm anyone but me" its "dont flirt with other people thru dm"

72697 - 

you need to communicate this across if you want this relationship to continue your feelings are important and she should understand how you feel not put you through all this

70819 -