As in, for people over 18 but sfw - theresa

Would be cool if we had 18+ venting rooms - theresa

I'm gtg

Kobi I can use that advice too

External validation is hell of a drug

That's the spirit blue

I hope y'all get to resolve your issues as soon as possible, I'm rooting for y'all

There's the possibility that that somebody didn't know better, and unaware that what they're doing is wrong

And... I have learned an important lesson: just because I see somebody doing something doesn't mean it's ok for me to do

For that I have joined support groups but I still feel the want to get other opinions and points of view on things I vent about (sfw discussions)

I also need to work on my external validation seeking behavior

And I was 20 or 21, I should have known better

But my vents involved topics that are inappropriate to minors, which is why I feel so much guilt, I really should have asked their age beforehand

I'm 24

Though I don't feel the need to vent about it as much as I used to

And of course I always make sure to vent about such things to other adults only

Gender inequality in representations. Staying away from toxic adult oriented spaces and limiting adult content exposure helped me tremendously

I still feel like I got off easy, though I now have resolved the underlying psychological problems that led me to that act

I vented to someone about inappropriate topics (adult oriented works) without realizing they were underage, the mods didn't ban me, just gave me last warning and told me to seek help but I still feel-

I feel disgusting and horrible for something I did years ago

hi there