I mean its good if its someone you trust

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THE DAILY ACTIVITIES AND HUMAN AFFAIRS OF THE WORLD FAIL WHEN THE HAZE HITS. SCHOOLS ARE CLOSED BUT WORKPLACES ARE OPEN AS USUAL UNLESS THE NATIONAL GOVERNMENT GIVES FREE MONEY TO THE PEOPLE.

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so no cyan, it doesnt mean you're not made for a relationship. if you dont feel like it and they dont accept that, there's no respect for what you want and that's not a good thing - romi

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or put corn videos on my phone wen i was 12-14

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Is there anything cyan?

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My partner says that everyone does this and i m the weird one

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never feel guilty about something you feel uncomfortable with cyan - romi

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I feel so guilty

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yeah what red said

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what does it matter what everyone is doing? it's a relationship between the two of you, not with others - romi

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it's rude to say something like that to you - romi

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True, its how you both set the groundwork

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Those things shouldnt feel forced

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Says i never loved him why did i say yes to hom if i cant even do things which make him happy

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lmao haha

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When i infact came into a relationship with lot of consideration and i didnt know this was needed i m always an emotional kinda person

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I told him i m not comfy

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Comfortable**

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Says you be comfortable only youll never choose ne over your comfort

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I m hurt

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But he says i always provide excuses

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:(

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I told him i dont feel safe it feels like and obligation but

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but?

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tell him you feel less likely to do it if he's like that

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he's the one making excuses wtf - romi

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They're not emotionally intelligent to comprehend what you feel so tell them in a way that you think they will understand

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No, he isnt.

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huh? - romi

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excuses to make cyan comfy?

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I told him wait i m not good at expressing things so i wrote

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excuses to make them not comfortable - romi

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I’ve been feeling like my choices, especially around physical things, haven’t been fully respected(never have been never will be). I wanted us to connect emotionally, not just physically. When I feel

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if they're uncomfortable that's just how it is, reacting badly isnt gonna get you anywhere - romi

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It shouldnt be an excuse, it should be mandatory.

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and what did he respond to that? - romi

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When I feel pressured, it makes me shut down(my mind my body everything that's when I grow distant if this makes sense?), and I’m scared of that (idk anymore what I m saying you'll probably label this

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this thing as a excuse too idk if it's even called an explanation but i tried to even though I know you won't understand this )I want to feel safe, not like I owe you something to keep you happy

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that's alright cyan, here is a safe space. we're not judging you - romi

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Hello - Lìam

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