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and it was ages ago - cheek squisher 85835 - |
hmm - cheek squisher 85835 - |
friends come and go 101112 - |
what u did was valid, and what you are feeling rn are valid - sav 100320 - |
ig they said they didnt want to be like bffs but still frineds 101107 - |
thx guys 101107 - |
maybe try speaking abt it. it seems like there might be some unresolved stuff - cheek squisher 85835 - |
i just keep doubting myself with this 101107 - |
im too scared to do so bcs theyre in a great place rn i dont want that to crash down 101107 - |
tell them exactly what you told us, including abt everything that happened during covid - cheek squisher 85835 - |
if they are indeed your friends purple, they would make a way to be close again - sav 100320 - |
they know the stuff in covid 101107 - |
but if they r not trying, maybe find better friends - sav 100320 - |
dont destroy the peace in your mind to keep the peace around you - cheek squisher 85835 - |
ik but i feel like i should stop being so clingy ive always done this 101107 - |
old friends are nice but making new ones is okay too 101112 - |
talk abt how youre feeling. dont trouble your mind - cheek squisher 85835 - |
u are not clingy for wanting closeness purple - sav 100320 - |
thanks red and im trying blue im just not as close to them as i am with them 101107 - |
*as close as i am to my bff 101107 - |
thx blue it means a lot 101107 - |
it’s js that u miss what u were ages ago - sav 100320 - |
but people grow purple - sav 100320 - |
you deserve a friendship where you feel fulfilled - cheek squisher 85835 - |
so do you - sav 100320 - |
yeah it doesnt help that we're both like autistic and the thing we used to hyperfixate on is still my hyperfixation and what my life revolves around whiles theirs doesnt and that kind of made us a 101107 - |
if it's affecting your mental health you might need to end the friendship but try talking first. i - cheek squisher 85835 - |
*a bit distant i think... 101107 - |
ohh - cheek squisher 85835 - |
i feel like id be worse off ending it i was hanging on by a thread when i didnt have them 101107 - |
ok that makes sense - cheek squisher 85835 - |
im sorry ik you guys are trying to help 101107 - |
if you talk abt the past it might resolve some unresolved issues and it could make you even closer - cheek squisher 85835 - |
but right now purple u arent getting any better. i know it is hard - sav 100320 - |
ik guys 101107 - |
you need to talk to them lol it's the only way forward - cheek squisher 85835 - |
what is it like to be autistic? 101112 - |
i know it's difficult - cheek squisher 85835 - |
i just dont want to hold them back theyre going out there they have their own life seperate of me and with a gf too 101107 - |
i know u are trying and that is good enough - sav 100320 - |