I told him i m not comfy

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Comfortable**

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Says you be comfortable only youll never choose ne over your comfort

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I m hurt

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But he says i always provide excuses

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:(

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I told him i dont feel safe it feels like and obligation but

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but?

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tell him you feel less likely to do it if he's like that

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he's the one making excuses wtf - romi

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They're not emotionally intelligent to comprehend what you feel so tell them in a way that you think they will understand

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No, he isnt.

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huh? - romi

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excuses to make cyan comfy?

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I told him wait i m not good at expressing things so i wrote

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excuses to make them not comfortable - romi

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I’ve been feeling like my choices, especially around physical things, haven’t been fully respected(never have been never will be). I wanted us to connect emotionally, not just physically. When I feel

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if they're uncomfortable that's just how it is, reacting badly isnt gonna get you anywhere - romi

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It shouldnt be an excuse, it should be mandatory.

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and what did he respond to that? - romi

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When I feel pressured, it makes me shut down(my mind my body everything that's when I grow distant if this makes sense?), and I’m scared of that (idk anymore what I m saying you'll probably label this

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this thing as a excuse too idk if it's even called an explanation but i tried to even though I know you won't understand this )I want to feel safe, not like I owe you something to keep you happy

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that's alright cyan, here is a safe space. we're not judging you - romi

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Hello - Lìam

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Emotional burn out

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He said a long paraa but it was all about him

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yeah that's not ok - romi

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Yeah, we totally understand how it feels and tbh it is not wrong to feel like that

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Like he says he needs to physically connect to provide me emotional things

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he can date his hand idc - romi

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yeah

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that's bullshit it doesn't work like that - romi

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Its more of a transaction, have sex with me so I can treat you nice

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Oh - Lìam

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He said And I can feel like your love and I can be emotional with you and open up to you but for that I need physical connection and the stuff I ask you to do because that's how I can be sure and feel

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yes, physical affection as a language exists, but there's ways to express that outside of the act itself, and if he isnt respecting that he's an asshole - romi

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exactly purple - romi

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ahhh, okay now I see it.. is there a way you can be physicallintimate with? not dleeping- just physically intimate

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and if you dont feel comfortable opening up to him? what then, he just won't show any love? that's stupid - romi

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Why can't i see you guys text ?

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