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coral, i know that. loving isnt easy but sometimes to love someone u need to let go - ya 100320 - |
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Niki if I may ask how are you related to this addict? - Ev 100579 - |
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and letting go doesnt mean u didnt love them, it means that u love them enough so they can be free - ya 100320 - |
what scares me is that she literally has no interest in quitting alcohol - f!51 <3 99970 - |
Family member of mind - Verlaine/Niki 100360 - |
how do i let go tho. Everyone tells me that but its been a month and its getting harder 100587 - |
Cyan have you tried turning your brain off and on again 99034 - |
niki, im sorry to be blunt. but some addicts doesn't want to be helped or there's just no way in saving them. i know i sound harsh, but trust me, ive been in ur place - elira 100581 - |
thats what the person im talking about is asicted to ,f - Verlaine/Niki 100360 - |
I keep thinking about the time i was told I am 'erasing a womans' identity' by being a lesboy (i am transmasc agender) and i feel down when i think about it i just want to stop thinking about it - WW 100334 - |
Niki, I would tell them about it. I'm not really experienced or anything, but if you let them know, they might try to quit whatever is is they're addicted to - M 100589 - |
coral, it is hard. but some day in ur life you’ll js realize that it was for the better - ya 100320 - |
Ah I see well if your family member doesn't want help it's probably not going to be possible for you yourself to help - Ev 100579 - |
like she’s not a horrible mother but i think she’s so traumatized by the endless cycle of drug addicted mothers and problematic families is making her not want to own up to her mistakes if that makes - f!51 <3 99970 - |
heyo - MacReady 100591 - |
help yourself out, coral:) - ya 100320 - |
Prob m 100585 - |
Hey Mac! - Ev 100579 - |
Heyoo - M 100589 - |
hi mac - ya 100320 - |
Hi ev! - MacReady 100591 - |
You cant really help someone who doesnt want to help themselves. Youll damage yourself in the process. - Judi 100588 - |
im gonna go now - WW 100334 - |
I see thank you guys. You dont sound harsh by the way, dont worry - Verlaine/Niki 100360 - |
I'm a functioning alcholic, but I can tell you that you need to find the root cause of the drinking. - Metalhead 99705 - |
i appreciate blunyness acyualy - Verlaine/Niki 100360 - |
Indeed judi 100585 - |
because why would anyone talk to someone like me - WW 100334 - |
bye ww! Take care - Verlaine/Niki 100360 - |
Ww me 100585 - |
WW whats wrong? - MacReady 100591 - |
Me 100585 - |
No problem. I think maybe a way you can help is by searching for profession help for your family member - Ev 100579 - |
Yo, ww. Ill talk to uou - M 100589 - |
Talk sbout demon slayer rn 100585 - |
So many whites suddenly - Judi 100588 - |
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what scares me is that she doesn’t seem to have any guilt or remorse, like usually people have that but i really don’t see any will to quit AT ALL - f!51 <3 99970 - |