how do i help an addict? I can tell its hurting him but he wont get help. He uses ot to cope with depression but it just makes things worse for all of us - Verlaine/Niki

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anyways i should be VENTING on here - f!51 <3

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oh my god niki i was just abt to say that abt my mom - f!51 <3

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Do it green. - .

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coral, i know that. loving isnt easy but sometimes to love someone u need to let go - ya

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and letting go doesnt mean u didnt love them, it means that u love them enough so they can be free - ya

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what scares me is that she literally has no interest in quitting alcohol - f!51 <3

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Family member of mind - Verlaine/Niki

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how do i let go tho. Everyone tells me that but its been a month and its getting harder

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Cyan have you tried turning your brain off and on again

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niki, im sorry to be blunt. but some addicts doesn't want to be helped or there's just no way in saving them. i know i sound harsh, but trust me, ive been in ur place - elira

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thats what the person im talking about is asicted to ,f - Verlaine/Niki

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I keep thinking about the time i was told I am 'erasing a womans' identity' by being a lesboy (i am transmasc agender) and i feel down when i think about it i just want to stop thinking about it - WW

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Niki, I would tell them about it. I'm not really experienced or anything, but if you let them know, they might try to quit whatever is is they're addicted to - M

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coral, it is hard. but some day in ur life you’ll js realize that it was for the better - ya

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like she’s not a horrible mother but i think she’s so traumatized by the endless cycle of drug addicted mothers and problematic families is making her not want to own up to her mistakes if that makes - f!51 <3

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heyo - MacReady

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help yourself out, coral:) - ya

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Prob m

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Heyoo - M

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hi mac - ya

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Hi ev! - MacReady

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You cant really help someone who doesnt want to help themselves. Youll damage yourself in the process. - Judi

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im gonna go now - WW

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I see thank you guys. You dont sound harsh by the way, dont worry - Verlaine/Niki

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I'm a functioning alcholic, but I can tell you that you need to find the root cause of the drinking. - Metalhead

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i appreciate blunyness acyualy - Verlaine/Niki

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Indeed judi

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because why would anyone talk to someone like me - WW

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bye ww! Take care - Verlaine/Niki

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Ww me

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WW whats wrong? - MacReady

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Me

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